This comment has nothing to do with the pics but i am too lazy to write this on whatsapp and i don’t know your email.
Maybe i misunderstood your message before, you said and i quote
“I do… And wonder what it would become when you find someone else to spend your evenings with” (sic)
If you meant you as my person, then that probably won’t happen soon, i am a lonely person so i hardly spend time with someone else and i am not “hunting for someone” if someone comes to my life i welcome her, otherwise i’m cool with it (i would spend evenings with you though 😉 )
Now if you meant you as some retorical form, then i keep my answer that in your case maybe it would be good for you so you won’t feel alone.
Now my personal opinion is that marriage nowadays rarely means anything deep. Marriage can mean in some ocasions showing your bond to some deity and for others is the proof of ultimate love, however, other meanings are fear of being alone, finishing a business, earh an inheritance, etc etc. So, maybe your intentions are pure(or not) but you don’t know other people’s thoughts (come on we barely know ourselves well), so, thinking that marriage equals happy endings like on fairy tales is quite naive. Statistics says that there are more divorces than marriages, other countries limit the marriage contract to a certain amount of years, therefore its meaning is getting less and less important nowadays. One can be alone even in a crowd, in a family, in a couple. A person doesn’t imply company. So my point is that, if you feel unhappy, then set a goal, think what would make you happy and go for it, whether you fight against half the world or not, you shouldn’t give up your life and or happiness for anyone else. If you feel bad an miserable, that has awful effects in the body and mind in the long term (we could talk a lot about psychology here but i’ll skip that for the time being). Soooooo you’re a smart girl, but maybe you have to start thinking what’s important for you and what’s not, if you want to be a travelling backpacker photography blogger, so be it 😀 but i think it’s sad that one void filling thing is alcohol and that you feel empty everyday.
Anyway I will be supporting you as long as you let me do it and don’t get tired of me. By the way tell me what is your reply 😀 i am curious
I don’t make things look easy but, everythin has a starting point. People often tend to negate their own reality because of several reasons such as preserving status/social appearance, fear of doing an introspective analysis, strong belief that everything will solve on its own, laziness, being over peaceful meaning that they don’t want to argue, fight etc. However, how can someone change if you dont change your attitude first. If you shelter yourself in my words claiming that i make everything sound easy, so be it, but i’m not the problem and i am not in your situation. Instead look at yourself, see what you can change and what you want and start from there. It is the same logic that smokers use “meh i will die someday anyway” but they die young and miserably plugged to a lot of machines and spreading toxicity and suffering wherever they go. If you want that it’s up to you, nobody can do anything for you but yourself, however, everything changes a small step at a time and as long as you don’t take it then everything will remain the same.
mega lol, that came from a text message where you said i make everything look so easy when i try to give you advices and/or analize your situation. Check the date and you will see.
Based on your reaction, doesn’t seem like a good thing
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Hi hi. My humble opinion is that pic number 1 seems too bright, i don’t know if you wanted to achieve that but i think it’s too bright and yellowish.
Number 2 is nice but seems a bit dark but nothing too serious
Number 3 has the same “problem” as number 1
Number 5 is a bit blurry although i am not sure if you wanted to achieve that or not, because the background is blurred but the front is too
Number 6 is a bit yellowish too (seems he has ictericia).
And that’s all . Sorry my eye is very untrained so don’t take my opinion too seriously 🙁
This comment has nothing to do with the pics but i am too lazy to write this on whatsapp and i don’t know your email.
Maybe i misunderstood your message before, you said and i quote
“I do… And wonder what it would become when you find someone else to spend your evenings with” (sic)
If you meant you as my person, then that probably won’t happen soon, i am a lonely person so i hardly spend time with someone else and i am not “hunting for someone” if someone comes to my life i welcome her, otherwise i’m cool with it (i would spend evenings with you though 😉 )
Now if you meant you as some retorical form, then i keep my answer that in your case maybe it would be good for you so you won’t feel alone.
Now my personal opinion is that marriage nowadays rarely means anything deep. Marriage can mean in some ocasions showing your bond to some deity and for others is the proof of ultimate love, however, other meanings are fear of being alone, finishing a business, earh an inheritance, etc etc. So, maybe your intentions are pure(or not) but you don’t know other people’s thoughts (come on we barely know ourselves well), so, thinking that marriage equals happy endings like on fairy tales is quite naive. Statistics says that there are more divorces than marriages, other countries limit the marriage contract to a certain amount of years, therefore its meaning is getting less and less important nowadays. One can be alone even in a crowd, in a family, in a couple. A person doesn’t imply company. So my point is that, if you feel unhappy, then set a goal, think what would make you happy and go for it, whether you fight against half the world or not, you shouldn’t give up your life and or happiness for anyone else. If you feel bad an miserable, that has awful effects in the body and mind in the long term (we could talk a lot about psychology here but i’ll skip that for the time being). Soooooo you’re a smart girl, but maybe you have to start thinking what’s important for you and what’s not, if you want to be a travelling backpacker photography blogger, so be it 😀 but i think it’s sad that one void filling thing is alcohol and that you feel empty everyday.
Anyway I will be supporting you as long as you let me do it and don’t get tired of me. By the way tell me what is your reply 😀 i am curious
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I don’t make things look easy but, everythin has a starting point. People often tend to negate their own reality because of several reasons such as preserving status/social appearance, fear of doing an introspective analysis, strong belief that everything will solve on its own, laziness, being over peaceful meaning that they don’t want to argue, fight etc. However, how can someone change if you dont change your attitude first. If you shelter yourself in my words claiming that i make everything sound easy, so be it, but i’m not the problem and i am not in your situation. Instead look at yourself, see what you can change and what you want and start from there. It is the same logic that smokers use “meh i will die someday anyway” but they die young and miserably plugged to a lot of machines and spreading toxicity and suffering wherever they go. If you want that it’s up to you, nobody can do anything for you but yourself, however, everything changes a small step at a time and as long as you don’t take it then everything will remain the same.
OMG… where did this come from?
mega lol, that came from a text message where you said i make everything look so easy when i try to give you advices and/or analize your situation. Check the date and you will see.
Based on your reaction, doesn’t seem like a good thing
ai ai ai …. I know where it came from, but that was a whole lot of it 😀
btw… sending you my email id by WA 🙂
Unlike most people i like to talk and meditate carefully about the situations. And if i can enlighten you a little well thats even better